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**broken_rebel** · 10-20-2006, 09:53 PM

I have thought about this for quite a while, possibly since July or so due to something that happened then.

Personally, I'd suggest waiting. Something like sex should be with someone you really love, not with every person you are with. Liking someone and having sex with him/her is SO much more different than being in love with someone and having sex with him/her.

There is SO much more to being in a relationship than sex, believe me. And if sex is all you want, you should probably get your priorities straightened out OR go find someone who wants the same thing as you. I can guarantee the latter probably won't work out in the end.

I also don't believe you should have sex with someone you are with at the moment just because they've been your significant other for less than a month, because that's just pathetic, IMO. You really can't force yourself to do something you aren't ready for though. Why the rush?

And one more thing... if your significant other isn't willing to wait when you are, then he/she is not right for you. Having patience with each other is key if you're to be together for a while.

It's just my opinion though.

I really don't have experience in it all, but I do know what I do and don't believe in. Especially since I've given it quite a bit of thought for the past 3 months.

edit: sorry for my ramblyness and it all being messy. I knew it was... Don't mind it. >.>

10-20-2006, 09:53 PM	#15 (permalink)
broken_rebel I r a sarcastic influence Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Massachusetts as of right now/CT soon Age: 22 Posts: 1,847 Points: 1,754.39 Bank: 598,657.70 Total Points: 600,412.09 Donate	I have thought about this for quite a while, possibly since July or so due to something that happened then. Personally, I'd suggest waiting. Something like sex should be with someone you really love, not with every person you are with. Liking someone and having sex with him/her is SO much more different than being in love with someone and having sex with him/her. There is SO much more to being in a relationship than sex, believe me. And if sex is all you want, you should probably get your priorities straightened out OR go find someone who wants the same thing as you. I can guarantee the latter probably won't work out in the end. I also don't believe you should have sex with someone you are with at the moment just because they've been your significant other for less than a month, because that's just pathetic, IMO. You really can't force yourself to do something you aren't ready for though. Why the rush? And one more thing... if your significant other isn't willing to wait when you are, then he/she is not right for you. Having patience with each other is key if you're to be together for a while. It's just my opinion though. I really don't have experience in it all, but I do know what I do and don't believe in. Especially since I've given it quite a bit of thought for the past 3 months. edit: sorry for my ramblyness and it all being messy. I knew it was... Don't mind it. >.> __________________ I don't need to be fixed And I certainly don't need to be found I'm not lost I need to be loved Last edited by broken_rebel : 10-20-2006 at 10:09 PM.