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Originally Posted by crysalis
agree with jane,the 14 is not an age that you can tell yes i'm gay or no i'm not, because are so many doubts,about everything,the personality is fulled around the 20,21,that is an age that you can tell yes i am,but everything is so confusing.Sometimes i ask to myself if i'm gay but i don't know if it's because i think too much in that.I think if i'm gay i wouldn't have the courage,i would keep it in secret.
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There is nothing wrong with being gay, crysalis, it is not something you should be ashamed of.
I knew I was gay from a very early age - when I was 11 I first started realising I was attracted to girls, but I didn't think it to be wrong, until I got to high school and found that girls who liked girls got beaten up, and I was, many times.
I think people can tell they are gay from a very early age - by teenage years you would know because all your hormones go mental, and you start noticing boys - or girls, for that matter and you realise where your attraction lies.
I kept my 'gayness' a secret - my parents actually knew when I was 15 but I think they thought it was a phase, until a couple of years ago my mum just asked me, and I said I was. She was disappointed, because my sister is also gay but she still loves us for who we are. I do feel guilty about who I am because my sister is in a relationship and I am not, so I feel sort of guilty, like I should be the straight one to even things up, you know, but I am not straight and never will be.
Just love yourself for who you are. Nothing else matters but your happiness.
