^ Can I ask, if you did sleep with your boyfriend, would you feel more of sense of commitment? Would anything change between you? Would you value him more than you did before you had sex?
Why does sex mean commitment to so many people? I'm not saying it means this to you, but I am curious as to why some people wait for sex, like they feel the relationship has be to secure, as in married, before they can have sex - does marriage make a relationship more meaningful and secure than it did before?

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