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Originally Posted by AdamantEsuna
But it all seemed to happen so fast and I just didnt think, I didnt really take a step back and look at the situation until after it happened, I just kinda went along with it without thinking of the consequences afterwards(i kept it safe though.. thankfully)
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You better get tested for STDs and get a pregnancy test. Even with perfect use condoms and birth control aren't 100% effective for a reason.
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Ya, thanks for calling me a bitch. I didnt even know he had a girlfriend until AFTER the fact, and I was pissed off enough as it was.. becuase now I'd have this weird guilt. methinks you've been cheated on?
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No offense, but you deserve it. I have been cheated on and you not knowing doesn't help your case in the slightest. It says a lot if you don't know this guy well enough to know he had a girlfriend, especially since you seem to have found out rather quickly. That's just about being responsible and making good decisions. Knowing how devastating that can be for other people involved, you had a responsibility to make sure you weren't hurting anyone. That's another example of what I meant about being mature and making good decisions while thinking about the consequences. You should feel guilty, but there's nothing you can really do about it now. You messed up, made a mistake, but you have to move on.
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Plus I'm really starting to think, do I really care about the friendship THAT much? I mean, she treated me straight out like shit and still does, and really, I know its not gonna last much longer becuase after this year I wont even be going to school with her.
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Get used to that. Girls are like that at your age, and it's really easy to just fall in with a crowd and conform due to peer pressure. It happens to lots of people, but it's really a factor of immaturity. As you get older, you get wiser about those sorts of things and you're less willing to let other people influence you. Teenagers are just more susceptible to pressure situations than older folk.
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But I think, having sex isnt that bad, as long as you're careful, comfortable, and its not like I'm having sex with tons of people, its only happened once so far, and I dont think I'm going to be doing it often anyhoo.
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Unfortunately, that's just a side-effect of being young. Not a care in the world, oh how those were the days.