Thanks Sonja.. I think you pretty much wrapped everything that Jane was trying to say up and said it in a very understandable and relatable(and somewhat less-mean

bwuah ha) way...
I think I shall have a talk with him and then if nothing postive comes out of it(hmmm, like maybe a little GUILT on his part) I will definately turn around and walk away from this strange thing... If maybe we can try to figure it out more soundly though then I want to still be FRIENDS with him.. He's pretty cool, and I wouldnt mind being friends, but with the current situation, it's just too complicated to be more.