I listen to all types, but mostly gothic and power metal.

Lacuna Coil, Type O Negative, Lollipop Lust Kill, Opeth, Nightwish, Epica, Draconian, Rammstein, too many others to mention.

I don't really do moshpits, I'd rather headband and listen to the music.

Edit: Yes, I always like to headband, I think I'm going to leave that mistake there.