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wolfblade · 07-31-2006, 11:55 PM

Grow up, grow up, grow up, grow up, grow up, grow up. It's vital that you do. And get some work done.

miss jessica · 08-01-2006, 08:55 AM

Dear Me:

Just tell someone already, let it out. It wont kill you to open up a little about this. You go to sleep every night, crying, hoping this will end. Do something for yourself and just let it out or its going to drive you to insanity. And its not your fault, so quit blaming yourself even when that seems like the last resort.
-Jessica

Jamie · 08-02-2006, 05:28 AM

Dear Me,

Please go talk to your friends. And restrain yourself from yelling or wanting to strangle them. They have to be acting the way they are for a reason, because you haven't given them a reason to act this way towards you. And if you have, it must have slipped your mind after you said or did whatever it was. Sure, they make you feel like you don't deserve the love you've had for quite a while now, they make you feel like you're not worthy of anything at times. You are worthy of love, no matter how much they have you scratching at your wrists, no matter how much they make you cry, no matter how worthless they make you feel. There isn't anything wrong with you. You're supposed to do what makes you feel good, as long as it isn't hurting you or affecting anyone else. What has he ever done to them? Not a damn thing.

So what, they're supposed to be your friends. They're supposed to support you if something makes you happy. Not push you down and expect you to take it. So what if they stormed out of your house after you told them you were tired of being treated like shit, that's standing up for yourself. You never give them shit for their relationships, even when you know they're going to fail, or if they're spending way too much time on theirs. You never say anything when they make you feel stupid, but when you finally do it's the end of the world. You never complain when they hurt your feelings, but when you joke around not meaning to and you do, it's the end of the world.

And it all starts because of him. The only reason you're still here in the first place. The only person who makes you feel like you're alive, the only person who never puts you down, the only person who believes in you no matter what you're doing. You don't understand why they hate him. Why they want you to give up everything and throw it all away to some guy you don't even know or want. They want you to be with some tater-digging asshole piece of shit and you won't accept that. You don't want to be stuck here in this shithole of a town with less than 1,000 people living within city limits. You want opportunity, out of here, away, even if it means giving up all you've known for a while. Do they hate him because he's going to "take you away"? Are they jealous? Do you even want to know? Can you take more of their words being shoved down your throat? Can you take not being given a chance to speak? Can you take their closed-mindedness and ignorance?

Fuck it. Just don't give up. You've been through that once, you're too good to go through it again. You've been through a lot with them and it can't end like this. There has to be something more, something deeper. Even though this isn't the first time I know you can get through this. Somehow.

And if they call, listen, wait until they're done and only comment if absolutely necessary. Don't let your mouth get you into trouble. Be honest and don't take any shit if you don't have to. Don't talk over whichever one calls. Be calm and maybe even go to their house to talk it out.

Cheer yourself up. Clean your room, talk to your mom, something. Get them off of your mind. Go shopping, buy those big-ass boots you want.

Breathe. Don't cry over it anymore. You're better than that. You're stronger than that.

Do what you know is right. (damn that was long, but i needed to let it out somewhere..)

rat_licker · 08-02-2006, 06:04 AM

Dear Me,

So yesterday you saw him, right? And what happened? You think you like him now, don't you? And that other guy, you know who I mean, you think maybe you could like him, too? If you got to know him a bit? Well, guess what? You probably would. You know what would/will happen then? The same thing that always happens. Nothing. Except you getting upset, and thinking you're not good enough for them. So I'm gonna tell you something now, they're the ones who aren't good enough. Just like Ryan wasn't, or Trent, or any of the others. No, don't argue. You are good enough for them. Too good. You are. They don't see it. Or maybe they do, and it scares them, so they convince themselves not to like you. Maybe, maybe not, you don't know. You do know you think maybe he used to like you. Remember that day outside the library, when Trent told you he did, and Ted agreed. Yeah, I thought you would. Which brings me to another subject, Trent. How much time was spent on him. And you didn't even talk to him. Because you didn't think you were good enough. But now you know you were. He would've talked to you. Didn't they all tell you he would? I know, if you could go back you would? Nope, because you did see him again after he left. And you still didn't do anything about it. But you should've. I could go on like this, but I guess what I'm trying to say is

Believe in yourself!!!

Love, Me.

myimmortalenemy · 08-03-2006, 01:20 AM

Dear me,

Know thyself.

**broken_rebel** · 08-03-2006, 01:40 AM

Dear me,

Stop being an oversensitive hormonal bitch and stfu. Learn not to take everything so hard. Please try and learn to love yourself.

Also learn to get over losses easier, please...

-Me.

Wolf Heart · 08-03-2006, 01:41 AM

Dear Me:

A little tan is all I ask of you. Sunshine is not going to kill you, so get off your lazy ass and go outside more.

Otherwise, I like you just the way you are!

batyma · 08-03-2006, 01:45 AM

Dear Me,

You should stop avoiding that guy and just go on one date with him!
Stop being a little fartknocker!
-you-

etherealme · 08-03-2006, 04:07 PM

Dear Me,
It's time to let go of past resentments. What happpened then is not happening now, regardless of how suspicious our mind can get at times.
You have a good life, a great life. Many people would love to be half as blessed as you are so get your ass off the pity train and start living the way you know how to.
Start writing again. Find yourself some people to jam with and get into singing in front of people again. Rediscover those pieces of dreams you keep letting go of.They may not ever come to fruition but understanding the talents you were bestowed are not a curse or hindrance but a gift will make you happier. No more hating yourself for giving up on things you had no control over.
Make what you do have work!
Oh yeah, and I love you even if you are a dumbass alot these days.

Untuned · 08-05-2006, 12:33 PM

Dear Me,

For God's sake, learn to control your fucking emotions. And grow up! Take responsibility for yourself.

07-31-2006, 11:55 PM	#41 (permalink)
wolfblade I'm hungry. Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Arkham Asylum Age: 18 Posts: 182 Points: 3,891.25 Bank: 3,543.01 Total Points: 7,434.26 Donate	Grow up, grow up, grow up, grow up, grow up, grow up. It's vital that you do. And get some work done. __________________ Seriousness is the only refuge of the shallow.- Oscar Wilde

08-01-2006, 08:55 AM	#42 (permalink)
miss jessica -*country girl Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Soddy Daisy TN baby!! Posts: 956 Points: 3,184.95 Bank: 0.01 Total Points: 3,184.96 Donate	Dear Me: Just tell someone already, let it out. It wont kill you to open up a little about this. You go to sleep every night, crying, hoping this will end. Do something for yourself and just let it out or its going to drive you to insanity. And its not your fault, so quit blaming yourself even when that seems like the last resort. -Jessica __________________ and we were tryin different things, and we were smokin funny things makin love out by the lake to our favorite song sippin whisky out the bottle, not thinkin bout tomorrow singin sweet home alabama all summer long <33

08-02-2006, 05:28 AM	#43 (permalink)
Jamie Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Mississippi. Age: 18 Posts: 293 Points: 350.36 Bank: 99.30 Total Points: 449.66 Donate	Dear Me, Please go talk to your friends. And restrain yourself from yelling or wanting to strangle them. They have to be acting the way they are for a reason, because you haven't given them a reason to act this way towards you. And if you have, it must have slipped your mind after you said or did whatever it was. Sure, they make you feel like you don't deserve the love you've had for quite a while now, they make you feel like you're not worthy of anything at times. You are worthy of love, no matter how much they have you scratching at your wrists, no matter how much they make you cry, no matter how worthless they make you feel. There isn't anything wrong with you. You're supposed to do what makes you feel good, as long as it isn't hurting you or affecting anyone else. What has he ever done to them? Not a damn thing. So what, they're supposed to be your friends. They're supposed to support you if something makes you happy. Not push you down and expect you to take it. So what if they stormed out of your house after you told them you were tired of being treated like shit, that's standing up for yourself. You never give them shit for their relationships, even when you know they're going to fail, or if they're spending way too much time on theirs. You never say anything when they make you feel stupid, but when you finally do it's the end of the world. You never complain when they hurt your feelings, but when you joke around not meaning to and you do, it's the end of the world. And it all starts because of him. The only reason you're still here in the first place. The only person who makes you feel like you're alive, the only person who never puts you down, the only person who believes in you no matter what you're doing. You don't understand why they hate him. Why they want you to give up everything and throw it all away to some guy you don't even know or want. They want you to be with some tater-digging asshole piece of shit and you won't accept that. You don't want to be stuck here in this shithole of a town with less than 1,000 people living within city limits. You want opportunity, out of here, away, even if it means giving up all you've known for a while. Do they hate him because he's going to "take you away"? Are they jealous? Do you even want to know? Can you take more of their words being shoved down your throat? Can you take not being given a chance to speak? Can you take their closed-mindedness and ignorance? Fuck it. Just don't give up. You've been through that once, you're too good to go through it again. You've been through a lot with them and it can't end like this. There has to be something more, something deeper. Even though this isn't the first time I know you can get through this. Somehow. And if they call, listen, wait until they're done and only comment if absolutely necessary. Don't let your mouth get you into trouble. Be honest and don't take any shit if you don't have to. Don't talk over whichever one calls. Be calm and maybe even go to their house to talk it out. Cheer yourself up. Clean your room, talk to your mom, something. Get them off of your mind. Go shopping, buy those big-ass boots you want. Breathe. Don't cry over it anymore. You're better than that. You're stronger than that. Do what you know is right. (damn that was long, but i needed to let it out somewhere..) __________________ one more anthem for the k n o w i t a l l i won't be standing up for long i better learn how to crawl

08-02-2006, 06:04 AM	#44 (permalink)
rat_licker Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: queensland, australia Age: 22 Posts: 413 Points: 500.00 Bank: 8,738.42 Total Points: 9,238.42 Donate	Dear Me, So yesterday you saw him, right? And what happened? You think you like him now, don't you? And that other guy, you know who I mean, you think maybe you could like him, too? If you got to know him a bit? Well, guess what? You probably would. You know what would/will happen then? The same thing that always happens. Nothing. Except you getting upset, and thinking you're not good enough for them. So I'm gonna tell you something now, they're the ones who aren't good enough. Just like Ryan wasn't, or Trent, or any of the others. No, don't argue. You are good enough for them. Too good. You are. They don't see it. Or maybe they do, and it scares them, so they convince themselves not to like you. Maybe, maybe not, you don't know. You do know you think maybe he used to like you. Remember that day outside the library, when Trent told you he did, and Ted agreed. Yeah, I thought you would. Which brings me to another subject, Trent. How much time was spent on him. And you didn't even talk to him. Because you didn't think you were good enough. But now you know you were. He would've talked to you. Didn't they all tell you he would? I know, if you could go back you would? Nope, because you did see him again after he left. And you still didn't do anything about it. But you should've. I could go on like this, but I guess what I'm trying to say is Believe in yourself!!! Love, Me. __________________ some days I cry alone but I know I'm not the only one Last edited by rat_licker : 08-02-2006 at 06:13 AM.

08-03-2006, 01:40 AM	#46 (permalink)
broken_rebel I r a sarcastic influence Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Massachusetts as of right now/CT soon Age: 22 Posts: 1,847 Points: 1,754.39 Bank: 598,657.70 Total Points: 600,412.09 Donate	Dear me, Stop being an oversensitive hormonal bitch and stfu. Learn not to take everything so hard. Please try and learn to love yourself. Also learn to get over losses easier, please... -Me. __________________ I don't need to be fixed And I certainly don't need to be found I'm not lost I need to be loved

08-03-2006, 01:20 AM	#45 (permalink)
myimmortalenemy Sex Muffin Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: There, There Age: 18 Posts: 887 Points: 1,302.53 Bank: 13,504.11 Total Points: 14,806.64 Donate	Dear me, Know thyself.

08-03-2006, 01:41 AM	#47 (permalink)
Wolf Heart Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Age: 17 Posts: 31 Points: 23.01 Bank: 288.27 Total Points: 311.28 Donate	Dear Me: A little tan is all I ask of you. Sunshine is not going to kill you, so get off your lazy ass and go outside more. Otherwise, I like you just the way you are!

08-03-2006, 01:45 AM	#48 (permalink)
batyma n00blet Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: The past 3 years in Limburg,Netherlands Age: 22 Posts: 3 Points: 131.42 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 131.42 Donate	... Dear Me, You should stop avoiding that guy and just go on one date with him! Stop being a little fartknocker! -you-

08-03-2006, 04:07 PM	#49 (permalink)
etherealme Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Iowa Age: 34 Posts: 896 Points: 27,672.34 Bank: 8,611.18 Total Points: 36,283.52 Donate	Dear Me, It's time to let go of past resentments. What happpened then is not happening now, regardless of how suspicious our mind can get at times. You have a good life, a great life. Many people would love to be half as blessed as you are so get your ass off the pity train and start living the way you know how to. Start writing again. Find yourself some people to jam with and get into singing in front of people again. Rediscover those pieces of dreams you keep letting go of.They may not ever come to fruition but understanding the talents you were bestowed are not a curse or hindrance but a gift will make you happier. No more hating yourself for giving up on things you had no control over. Make what you do have work! Oh yeah, and I love you even if you are a dumbass alot these days. __________________ If it looks like a skunk and smells like a skunk, it aint no kitty cat......

08-05-2006, 12:33 PM	#50 (permalink)
Untuned Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 59 Points: 549.75 Bank: 1.25 Total Points: 551.00 Donate	Dear Me, For God's sake, learn to control your fucking emotions. And grow up! Take responsibility for yourself.

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