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Jane · 04-30-2008, 02:26 PM

Actually, the kid's 14, just entering the puberty stage (i.e. hormonal-overload). I'm fairly certain that by that age you've left cootie-ville.

destroyer6389 · 05-05-2008, 04:25 AM

Sweetie, I pray that things will get better for you. You have to remember to keep hope alive and realize that you're still young and that means you got your whole life ahead of. Life is always a cycle of highs and lows, just hold out untill you reach that high.

Take Care

crysalis · 05-09-2008, 07:19 PM

agree with jane,the 14 is not an age that you can tell yes i'm gay or no i'm not, because are so many doubts,about everything,the personality is fulled around the 20,21,that is an age that you can tell yes i am,but everything is so confusing.Sometimes i ask to myself if i'm gay but i don't know if it's because i think too much in that.I think if i'm gay i wouldn't have the courage,i would keep it in secret.

Princess Mary · 05-09-2008, 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by crysalis

agree with jane,the 14 is not an age that you can tell yes i'm gay or no i'm not, because are so many doubts,about everything,the personality is fulled around the 20,21,that is an age that you can tell yes i am,but everything is so confusing.Sometimes i ask to myself if i'm gay but i don't know if it's because i think too much in that.I think if i'm gay i wouldn't have the courage,i would keep it in secret.

There is nothing wrong with being gay, crysalis, it is not something you should be ashamed of.

I knew I was gay from a very early age - when I was 11 I first started realising I was attracted to girls, but I didn't think it to be wrong, until I got to high school and found that girls who liked girls got beaten up, and I was, many times.
I think people can tell they are gay from a very early age - by teenage years you would know because all your hormones go mental, and you start noticing boys - or girls, for that matter and you realise where your attraction lies.

I kept my 'gayness' a secret - my parents actually knew when I was 15 but I think they thought it was a phase, until a couple of years ago my mum just asked me, and I said I was. She was disappointed, because my sister is also gay but she still loves us for who we are. I do feel guilty about who I am because my sister is in a relationship and I am not, so I feel sort of guilty, like I should be the straight one to even things up, you know, but I am not straight and never will be.

Just love yourself for who you are. Nothing else matters but your happiness.

milas · 05-10-2008, 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by crysalis

agree with jane,the 14 is not an age that you can tell yes i'm gay or no i'm not, because are so many doubts,about everything,the personality is fulled around the 20,21,that is an age that you can tell yes i am,but everything is so confusing.Sometimes i ask to myself if i'm gay but i don't know if it's because i think too much in that.I think if i'm gay i wouldn't have the courage,i would keep it in secret.

well, not really... I was about 14 when I actually realised I'm bi.
I thought things might change, but now I'm sure they won't. Though, only my closest friends know I'm bi. I can talk about it only with my gay friend, others are just accepting it.
I didn't tell it to those friends who said few comments about gay people. No matter how much I love them.
My family doesn't know, and I doubt they ever will. My dad hates anything that's out of ordinary... He still can't accept the fact that I'm a vegetarian, and that's... NOTHING compared to my sexual orientation.

broken_inside_0133 · 05-14-2008, 01:45 PM

You shoudl really tell you're mom. You might not think it's a good thing to do...but in the long run, it really is. She would rather find out from you now than to find out from someone else months or years from now. She could possible think you don't trust her if you don't tell her. But one bad thing that could happen is that she mioght think she did something to you or brought you up wrong. If you think she may be thinking that. MAKE SURE you reassure her that she didn't. Thats an essential thing.

Leanne · 05-14-2008, 07:20 PM

I think the thing is, that when you're that age if you start thinking about stuff like that or "realising" things, for some people it is "real" as to say, but with a lot of people it is the fact that they are just curious/confused or whatever. I do believe you can tell whether you're gay at that age [mainly because I think it was around that age that I realised I was gay, and it's been nearly 4 years and I'm absolutely positive about it], it's just that some people it's just a "phase" as I think parents like to call it.

hellothisisme · Yesterday, 01:08 AM

my life hasnt stopped moving since my attempt, i constantly find myself crying for no reason other than to cry. blood seems more attractive than ever, especially when falling from my wrist. the small things in life are no more, its all HUGE. my friends are the only ones who try to understand, therapists and adults just look at me like a freak. my parents hate me, and thats definently for sure. after coming out people are just hatin on me and its driving me crazy. a peaceful day seems impossible, a shitty one almost never fails to come. i find myself in random chat lines acting as tho everythings ok, i talk to random strangers as a way to escape because they dont know the real me, hell, i dont know the real me. my favorite music doesnt excite me anymore, and im falling constantly. i need a hand to help pick me up, i need a lover to hug when im down. but my parents cut off my communication, which means no friends, no lovers, not even a hand. im scared to death, and to be quite frank, im dying.

Jane · Yesterday, 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by hellothisisme

my life hasnt stopped moving since my attempt, i constantly find myself crying for no reason other than to cry. blood seems more attractive than ever, especially when falling from my wrist. the small things in life are no more, its all HUGE. my friends are the only ones who try to understand, therapists and adults just look at me like a freak. my parents hate me, and thats definently for sure. after coming out people are just hatin on me and its driving me crazy. a peaceful day seems impossible, a shitty one almost never fails to come. i find myself in random chat lines acting as tho everythings ok, i talk to random strangers as a way to escape because they dont know the real me, hell, i dont know the real me. my favorite music doesnt excite me anymore, and im falling constantly. i need a hand to help pick me up, i need a lover to hug when im down. but my parents cut off my communication, which means no friends, no lovers, not even a hand. im scared to death, and to be quite frank, im dying.

Do you WANT to get better?

hellothisisme · Yesterday, 08:33 PM

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Do you WANT to get better?

yes, i do, very badly, and i've tried SOO hard, but nothings working anymore! my parents have taken away my therapy sessions cuz they said that they didnt help. i just sit home and cry all day, i only go to school half the time, and the school understands, theyre just gonna excuse me from everything i dont do. i cant find the strengh in me, thats why i need a hand....

04-30-2008, 02:26 PM	#21 (permalink)
Jane seimei no kyozetsu Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Ohio Age: 20 Posts: 1,971 Points: 1,768.53 Bank: 41,888.76 Total Points: 43,657.29 Donate	Actually, the kid's 14, just entering the puberty stage (i.e. hormonal-overload). I'm fairly certain that by that age you've left cootie-ville. __________________ Jane

05-09-2008, 07:19 PM	#23 (permalink)
crysalis Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: cocoon Posts: 54 Points: 2,130.96 Bank: 629.11 Total Points: 2,760.07 Donate	agree with jane,the 14 is not an age that you can tell yes i'm gay or no i'm not, because are so many doubts,about everything,the personality is fulled around the 20,21,that is an age that you can tell yes i am,but everything is so confusing.Sometimes i ask to myself if i'm gay but i don't know if it's because i think too much in that.I think if i'm gay i wouldn't have the courage,i would keep it in secret. __________________ "Don't do to others what you don't like them to do to you"

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broken_inside_0133 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: United States Age: 16 Posts: 36 Points: 3,239.37 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 3,239.37 Donate	You shoudl really tell you're mom. You might not think it's a good thing to do...but in the long run, it really is. She would rather find out from you now than to find out from someone else months or years from now. She could possible think you don't trust her if you don't tell her. But one bad thing that could happen is that she mioght think she did something to you or brought you up wrong. If you think she may be thinking that. MAKE SURE you reassure her that she didn't. Thats an essential thing. __________________ ~PrOmIsEs ArE LiEs~[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

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Leanne Gay Monkey Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: England Age: 17 Posts: 2,057 Points: 1,018.10 Bank: 119,058.35 Total Points: 120,076.45 Donate	I think the thing is, that when you're that age if you start thinking about stuff like that or "realising" things, for some people it is "real" as to say, but with a lot of people it is the fact that they are just curious/confused or whatever. I do believe you can tell whether you're gay at that age [mainly because I think it was around that age that I realised I was gay, and it's been nearly 4 years and I'm absolutely positive about it], it's just that some people it's just a "phase" as I think parents like to call it. __________________

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hellothisisme n00blet Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: on this little planet some people call earth.... Posts: 17 Points: 2,694.79 Bank: 239.02 Total Points: 2,933.81 Donate	my life hasnt stopped moving since my attempt, i constantly find myself crying for no reason other than to cry. blood seems more attractive than ever, especially when falling from my wrist. the small things in life are no more, its all HUGE. my friends are the only ones who try to understand, therapists and adults just look at me like a freak. my parents hate me, and thats definently for sure. after coming out people are just hatin on me and its driving me crazy. a peaceful day seems impossible, a shitty one almost never fails to come. i find myself in random chat lines acting as tho everythings ok, i talk to random strangers as a way to escape because they dont know the real me, hell, i dont know the real me. my favorite music doesnt excite me anymore, and im falling constantly. i need a hand to help pick me up, i need a lover to hug when im down. but my parents cut off my communication, which means no friends, no lovers, not even a hand. im scared to death, and to be quite frank, im dying. __________________ adviceforthestupid.freeforums.org, check it out man! register to join the awesome wonder that is AFTS!!!!

05-05-2008, 04:25 AM	#22 (permalink)
destroyer6389 n00blet Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: I live in the bronx, spend most of my time in manhattan though Age: 18 Posts: 3 Points: 691.74 Bank: 200.00 Total Points: 891.74 Donate	Sweetie, I pray that things will get better for you. You have to remember to keep hope alive and realize that you're still young and that means you got your whole life ahead of. Life is always a cycle of highs and lows, just hold out untill you reach that high. Take Care

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