Well i dunno if anyone knows what to do with this one.. Im sure ive tried everything

My mate Terri ive known her for 3 odd years.. At first i met her on an evanescence site but then we met up and everything and we were great mates.. We sorta went out before but not properly cus it was like one of them msn relationships.. It ended cus she heard lies about me off one of my enemies. But anyway a while back i showed her a pic of one of my mates and she fancied him immediatly.. Shes met him since then and she likes him alot.. Meanwhile i love her loads still.. She knows i do but she wants me as a best mate.. But i see her as alot more, all of our friends say we should be together too.. Shes the only one who dont see it.. Yesterday me her and chris(the mate) were hanging out and i dared chris to kiss her cus i wanted her to think im ok bout it and i thought chris would dare me to kiss her when it was his turn.. He kissed her and it killed me inside. then he didnt dare me to kiss her :( Its getting really bad cus everytime i hang out with her and talk to her online a relationship is all i think about...

She comes out with stuff like im too good for her and im not her type.. But she says its not looks and she loves my personality so i dunno what it is.. she carnt even tell me herself:mad:

Thanks in advance

i wanted her to think im ok bout it and i thought chris would dare me to kiss her when it was his turn.. He kissed her and it killed me inside. then he didnt dare me to kiss her Its getting really bad cus everytime i hang out with her and talk to her online a relationship is all i think about...
That exact bit was on the Cosby Show. (Im so pathetic).

Boy in position that you are in, where his ex-g/f (and still crush) begins to get close to one of his friends says "He stabbed me in the back!"
To which, I think Cosby says "Looks like you handed him the knife."

IMO, theres not much you can do about that little bit. What happened happened and...its really no one's fault. Just happened. Not saying that you are blaming anyone- but I think theres little you can do in that situation.

As far as her getting close with another friend... again, I dunno if theres a whole lot YOU can do at this point. You could maybe tell your friend, Chris, to not get too comfy with her because you still like her... but if you say -she- is interested in him, as well, i think theres little you can do. You cant really make up her mind for her. Where she goes is her choice- you can choose to interfere at the risk of becoming less than her best friend, or stay out of her way.

In my opinion- since she already said she just wants you as a best friend- interfering and trying to sway her decision even MORE might ruin even that chance. My advice? Just be her best friend, like she asks. You cant make up her mind for her.

I think everyone feels this way at one point or another. Sometimes, we have feelings for someone who doesn't have them back, or who does have them back, but then decides they don't feel that way after all. It hurts being rejected, but at one point or another, we all have to move on. I've found a couple good things to do are try not to talk to the person for awhile, because then that way you can sort out your own feelings without time spent with them being a distraction. maybe write a poem or letter to yourself about how you feel, writing is usually a great release. Try to just focus on a friendship with her, and think about all the fun times you had when you were just friends. i don't know how much I've helped, but I hope I have in someway! Keep your head help up, and you'll make it through!

I think everyone feels this way at one point or another. Sometimes, we have feelings for someone who doesn't have them back, or who does have them back, but then decides they don't feel that way after all. It hurts being rejected, but at one point or another, we all have to move on. I've found a couple good things to do are try not to talk to the person for awhile, because then that way you can sort out your own feelings without time spent with them being a distraction. maybe write a poem or letter to yourself about how you feel, writing is usually a great release. Try to just focus on a friendship with her, and think about all the fun times you had when you were just friends. i don't know how much I've helped, but I hope I have in someway! Keep your head help up, and you'll make it through!

Thanks ill give it a try;)

This might not help at all, but if she doesn't like you in that way, then there isn't much you can do about it.
My friend just ended a one-sided relationship. The guy that she was going out with loved her, but she didn't have any felings towards him. She kept trying to tell him in the nicest way possible, without hurting his feelings, but he wouldn't accept it. At one stage he punched a wall. She was upset about it, but she only liked him as a friend and there wasn't much she could do. They finally broke up, and it's better for both of them.
Talk to your friend and tell him how you feel, because if you don't tell him then it will build up and eventually erupt into an argument. Let it out now while you aren't too bitter about it, trust me I know what happens if you don't.
Good luck.