Okay I posted something about my 'friend' before, before the crash. Then it was still a bit harmless...but I'll tell you all everything, how it started.

It began with 2 friends of mine. One friend, C, has always been the original one and the REAL one. T...I don't know T well enough...she started to copy me a bit, when I just knew her. I didn't recognize it yet though. I started seeing that since she started copying C. She copied everything, and became annoying. Okay this is where I stopped first.
Now, T tries to be 'better' then C. She is always annoying, she can never be serious about anything, She is a wannabe, she tries to be a skater. She is always bragging about things she didn't do well at all. Or wich C did.
T is pretty annoying to both of us actually...we can't talk to her anymore, she won't listen, she just talks about other things when we talk to her.
And now...the worst thing. Those other things are just annoying, but this is getting dangerous. Almost every week T tells me how she had a fight with 'some bitch' (that's the way she calls those girls), and she is totally bragging about it. She always says that those girls started it...MY ASS she started it, she is just like C (no she is trying to be just like her) and C never has a fight. And I'm afraid if T ALWAYS opens her big mouth, that she could get in real trouble some time. I don't want her to get beaten up or something.
So I'm asking you, what should we do? We don't want to dump her, because we just don't want to lose a friend, even though she is bugging us all the time (I think we are the only ones who see it). And we can never let ANYONE down. We can't talk to her about it either, because T might not understand, and that might be the end of our 'friendship'.
What should be do?
Thank you for reading this waaaaaaaaay too long post :)

Well, you won't dump her as a friend, but you don't want to talk with her about it either? Doesn't leave you any options except to keep putting up with it, which doesn't seem fair.

So, here's the summary. You and C are best friends, then T comes along out of nowhere, is trying to be like you, and is getting annoying......

honestly, sounds like typical High School drama. Group dynamics are tricky, especially in groups of 3. One person is always going to be left out and it looks like T is it this week. Next week, C and T may be talking shit about you, and then the week after that, you and T will be annoyed with C.

The way I see it is, T is trying to gain your acceptance by being more like you and C. You and C find this annoying. That, and her antics are going to get her in trouble. Basically, you need to ask her why she is talking shit with those other girls. Tell her it's not cool, and one of these days she is going to get herself and all of you into trouble. Tell her to calm down and just be herself. She doesn't need to try and impress people.

I understand your concern about losing your friendship with her..but she's doing you more wrong than good. And that's where you have to take conclusions. It's not healthy for anyone. You get bugged by her, and she's just making a fool out of herself.

Tell her everyting. You being annoyed by her wannabe attitude. Truth hurts, but that's the only way she'll understand and will learn something out of this.

You have the chance to lose her, but that's a risk you HAVE to take; so that both you and her get better. She'll learn from it, really.

She'll be heart broken but she'll realize she needed this to happen to make a change in her attitude and life.

Even though it sounds cliché, honesty is always the best way to go.

Seriously, ok it's rude to say but...let her be. If I were you, I wouldn't care about that girl anymore. You've got to be selfish in life, sometimes.

Has T got any other friends? Wat is it she likes about you and C?

If she has no other friends then tell her what you told us, tell her you don't want to lose her as a friend but you don't like her annoying wannabe attitude.

As Julie said, the truth does hurt, but it is for her own good aswell. She could mouth off somebody who wasn't gonna take it, and then get serious beats, and if you are with her you could get hurt aswell.

I don't understand fully? You don't want her hanging around you, but you don't want to talk to her about it because you are afraid she won't be your friend? If you're that unhappy with the girl, then isn't that what the best thing to do would be - stop being friends with her?

As far as her copying you, I realize that maybe it can be annoying (I don't really know how severe or to what extent she's doing it), but try and look at it that she thinks you're really "cool" and she wants to be like you. In itself, that's a compliment.

You said she won't listen, does that mean you HAVE tried talking to her about this issue?

maybe your friend just need someone who listen to her. she thinks it's cool to do stupid things like that. tell her that fights with those "bitches" are silly and dangerous. if she does not stop tell her that you dont want to listen . it's hard losing a friend but friends dont annoy each other that much.

Well I once asked her if she even listened to me, and I said that she had fights every week or something...and she won't listen...so I guess it's kind of a yes ^^