Worst way to break up with someone/worst break up experience? - EvBoard

Rory · 07-05-2006, 11:40 PM

Thought I'd see what you all think here.

Hmm..letsee, my worst breakup experience would be the one who called me and said "Yeah, this you and me thing is over, kay?" after about three months. Good times.
Your turn!

Ashlee · 07-05-2006, 11:42 PM

txt msg.

nuff said.

*Dawn* · 07-05-2006, 11:46 PM

Ooooh. The worst one for me was my very first boyfriend. He decided to cheat on me with 3 different girls (which I found out from a really good friend of mine), and I guess telling me he was breaking up with me just...slipped his mind.

He suddenly started ignoring me, not returning phone calls, and even made his parents hate me and treat me like crap when I went to bring him a birthday present. I got kicked out of the house after they received the present and then got told to never come back. :|

All this without him ever actually telling me it was over.

...My mother is still to this day convinced I need to get back together with him and won't stop telling me what he's doing and how he's doing. :/

mbmanus · 07-05-2006, 11:51 PM

Lets see after spending most of the night with her and her saying to me that she didnt want me to go, she calls and leaves a message when I was at work saying she needs to talk to me. I call her and she says she doesnt want to see me anymore. To this day I dont completely understand it.

**broken_rebel** · 07-05-2006, 11:52 PM

Not telling the person, but instead just going off with other people. And then telling the person you were originally with while you're already in the relationship with someone else, and expecting them to be cool and happy about it.

Aka.. cheating. Cheating = bad.

.. yeah. It's happened to me. Not fun. Not fun at all. (no this isn't about you.. so yeah, please don't assume, ok? This isn't about you at all whatsoever.)...

No one, and I repeat NO ONE, should have to go through that. I don't care what type of person you are, no one deserves the hurt.

Just don't cheat. If you don't have feelings for your current boyfriend or girlfriend anymore, TELL them. It won't hurt to be honest. Lying and sneaking around won't get you anywhere.

Jane · 07-06-2006, 12:07 AM

Dude a text message!? That's messed up... and really low. I think one of the worst ways to break up with someone is to have someone else break it off for you, or let your cheatin' ways do the talking for you. I imagine that's always gotta suck.

myimmortalenemy · 07-06-2006, 12:40 AM

He wasn't planning on telling me he was going to break up with me. He acted like a jerk for the last month we were together. He just waited until I confronted him, told me he was moving to one of the 'M' states, made me cry, acted like he care, and about two days later made out with one of my friends.

Jgalttuhs · 07-06-2006, 12:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Jane

Dude a text message!? That's messed up... and really low. I think one of the worst ways to break up with someone is to have someone else break it off for you, or let your cheatin' ways do the talking for you. I imagine that's always gotta suck.

Like that time my ex-girlfriend asked my ex-roomie for sex and he called back to say yes on the other line while we were on the phone?

Yeahhhh....that one was just peachy.

wolfblade · 07-06-2006, 02:16 AM

Well, I don't have any from personal experience, but my cousin was telling me about a friend of hers that got dumped at the "happiest place on earth." In the middle of a crowd of people. Apparently it was a field trip too.

Shape · 07-06-2006, 02:18 AM

biotch dumped me in a letter. fucked the rest of my day all up. :/

07-05-2006, 11:40 PM	#1 (permalink)
Rory Fledgling Post Monkey Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Massachusetts Age: 19 Posts: 1,056 Points: 1,589.65 Bank: 515.77 Total Points: 2,105.43 Donate	Worst way to break up with someone/worst break up experience? Thought I'd see what you all think here. Hmm..letsee, my worst breakup experience would be the one who called me and said "Yeah, this you and me thing is over, kay?" after about three months. Good times. Your turn! __________________

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Ashlee THATSWHATSHESAID Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Edward's meadow Age: 20 Posts: 2,757 Points: 10,917.47 Bank: 18,936.60 Total Points: 29,854.07 Donate	txt msg. nuff said. __________________ ♥

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Dawn Unreliable sarcasm whore Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Dutchie stuck in Cancun/hurricane magnet. Age: 26 Posts: 2,100 Points: 500.00 Bank: 912,779.28 Total Points: 913,279.28 Donate	Ooooh. The worst one for me was my very first boyfriend. He decided to cheat on me with 3 different girls (which I found out from a really good friend of mine), and I guess telling me he was breaking up with me just...slipped his mind. He suddenly started ignoring me, not returning phone calls, and even made his parents hate me and treat me like crap when I went to bring him a birthday present. I got kicked out of the house after they received the present and then got told to never come back. :\| All this without him ever actually telling me it was over. ...My mother is still to this day convinced I need to get back together with him and won't stop telling me what he's doing and how he's doing. :/ __________________ Stuff.

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broken_rebel I r a sarcastic influence Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Massachusetts as of right now/CT soon Age: 22 Posts: 1,847 Points: 1,754.39 Bank: 598,657.70 Total Points: 600,412.09 Donate	Not telling the person, but instead just going off with other people. And then telling the person you were originally with while you're already in the relationship with someone else, and expecting them to be cool and happy about it. Aka.. cheating. Cheating = bad. .. yeah. It's happened to me. Not fun. Not fun at all. (no this isn't about you.. so yeah, please don't assume, ok? This isn't about you at all whatsoever.)... No one, and I repeat NO ONE, should have to go through that. I don't care what type of person you are, no one deserves the hurt. Just don't cheat. If you don't have feelings for your current boyfriend or girlfriend anymore, TELL them. It won't hurt to be honest. Lying and sneaking around won't get you anywhere. __________________ I don't need to be fixed And I certainly don't need to be found I'm not lost I need to be loved Last edited by broken_rebel : 07-06-2006 at 01:06 AM.

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wolfblade I'm hungry. Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Arkham Asylum Age: 18 Posts: 182 Points: 3,891.25 Bank: 3,543.01 Total Points: 7,434.26 Donate	Well, I don't have any from personal experience, but my cousin was telling me about a friend of hers that got dumped at the "happiest place on earth." In the middle of a crowd of people. Apparently it was a field trip too. __________________ Seriousness is the only refuge of the shallow.- Oscar Wilde

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mbmanus Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: The best state in the union-Texas Age: 25 Posts: 982 Points: 14,816.71 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 14,816.71 Donate	Lets see after spending most of the night with her and her saying to me that she didnt want me to go, she calls and leaves a message when I was at work saying she needs to talk to me. I call her and she says she doesnt want to see me anymore. To this day I dont completely understand it.

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Jane Member of the Banned TEMP BANNED Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Ohio Age: 21 Posts: 3,463 Points: 1,588.59 Bank: 478,610.02 Total Points: 480,198.61 Donate	Dude a text message!? That's messed up... and really low. I think one of the worst ways to break up with someone is to have someone else break it off for you, or let your cheatin' ways do the talking for you. I imagine that's always gotta suck.

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myimmortalenemy Sex Muffin Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: There, There Age: 19 Posts: 887 Points: 1,302.53 Bank: 13,504.11 Total Points: 14,806.64 Donate	He wasn't planning on telling me he was going to break up with me. He acted like a jerk for the last month we were together. He just waited until I confronted him, told me he was moving to one of the 'M' states, made me cry, acted like he care, and about two days later made out with one of my friends.

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Shape ¬¬ Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: San Jose, California Age: 26 Posts: 4,580 Points: 22,432.79 Bank: 490,814.67 Total Points: 513,247.46 Donate	biotch dumped me in a letter. fucked the rest of my day all up. :/

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